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Saturday 13 February 2016

Expectations Hurts

          Expecting can sometimes be the most painful thing for you. Never expect anything in life because sometimes expectation leads to disappointments. By expecting, we often have an imaginations in our head but when something we wished for did not happen then it will make us feel so shattered. Its better not to expect from anyone in our life, because when the person did not do that then it is you who will loose a part of your heart. We expect things which we need and we get mentally attached to the needs and when that need did not happen then it will mentally destroy us and makes us feel unhappy. Expectations are mainly because we dwell in life of how the future will be and by imagining we are loosing  a part of time which we could have used to enjoy life. Many expectations comes from imagining about our future and when someone does not live up to those expectations then its you who will be sad. It can be hard to not expect anything from anyone but its important to live in the present and the more time you spend enjoying this minute the more happy your life will be.

          So many relationships fails because of expectations as well. A person often puts so many expectations on the other person and feels sad and depressed when they fail to do your expectations. Failure to satisfy expectations have ended huge percent of relationships in today's world. Sometimes the expectations increases depends on how long your relationship is and sometimes, there are chances for your partner fail to meet them which causes for many relationship being ended. It takes a lot of focus for you to overcome those expectations and it can increase over time and it is important to look at your life instead of calculating your plans for future, think about what you can do in present so you don't have to stress yourself in life. Just make sure that no one or nothing is affecting your happiness. When you stop expecting from others then you will free yourself and be able to see what other person is up to and you can also observe what they do and can see how they are clearly so that you can get a clear vision of them and be able to make decisions in your life.

          Overall, it is really important to love life happily. By expecting, sometimes we forgot the happiness around us, so lets work on not expecting from anyone or anything and do what we can do best and enjoy every moment of our life without complaints as well as regrets. Live is beautiful, so love every moment and be yourself. No one can love and care for you like you can do to yourself. Always live your life happily without worries and stress. When you realize that there are nothing you can loose in life then you will have more chances on how to enjoy life. You can discover yourself when you stop expecting, and can observe the child in you to have a better life. Live your life happily and smile often because at the end it is you who will always be there for you. We never know what next moment is so live for the present and stop taking life serious.